8 Syawal already?
September 28, 2009 at 12:13 | In General Musings, People, spirituality | Leave a CommentTags: love, rose, sacrifice, selfless
Assalaamu’alaikum everyone!
I hope it’s not too late…

SubhanAllah… Astaghfirullah, forgive me, I’ve been so preoccupied with work and Ramadhan and now Syawal =)
If you live amongst the Malay-Muslims in Southeast Asia, the coming of Syawal is huge deal. In fact, ‘Eid celebrations are stretched over the entire month of Syawal here, so by hook or by crook, no matter how tired we get, we’d go house-visiting at any free time we have, all for the sake of maintaning and strengthening the ukhwah with our family and friends.
So there’s always mountains of food to be prepared, dozens of relatives and friends to visit, another few dozen more guests to entertain… so yes, we’ve got our hands full.
So, anyway, enough about ‘Eid celebrations in Southeast Asia, in this post I’d like to share a wonderful note I stumbled across on Facebook =)
The Rose Within
A certain man planted a rose and watered it faithfully and before it blossomed, he examined it.
He saw the bud that would soon blossom, but noticed thorns upon the stem and he thought, “How can any beautiful flower come from a plant burdened with so many sharp thorns? Saddened by this thought, he neglected to water the rose, and just before it was ready to bloom… it died.
So it is with many people. Within every soul there is a rose. The God-like qualities planted in us at birth, grow amid the thorns of our faults. Many of us look at ourselves and see only the thorns, the defects.
We despair, thinking that nothing good can possibly come from us. We neglect to water the good within us, and eventually it dies. We never realize our potential.
Some people do not see the rose within themselves; someone else must show it to them. One of the greatest gifts a person can possess is to be able to reach past the thorns of another, and find the rose within them.
This is one of the characteristic of love… to look at a person, know their true faults and accepting that person into your life… all the while recognizing the nobility in their soul. Help others to realize they can overcome their faults. If we show them the “rose” within themselves, they will conquer their thorns. Only then will they blossom many times over.
SubhanAllah… and that is precisely why Islam does not condone monasticism =)
And why I love to say that Islam is a social religion.
I shall end off here, Insya’Allah I’ll be posting more regularly. =)
Have a blessed Syawal everyone! =D
Peace!
February 26, 2009 at 20:25 | In Current Affairs, People, prophet muhammad | 1 CommentTags: harmony, inter-faith, islam, peace, peace efforts, Prophet, Rasulullah, reflections, search for common ground, sirah, tariq ramadan, the messenger
Assalaamu’alaikum everyone!
Hope you’re all doing fine, Insya’Allah… I’ve been sneezing a lot today, haha. He must be Telling me something
Anyways, below is an excerpt from The Messenger: The Meanings of the Life of Muhammad by Tariq Ramadan
Haha, I’ve been wanting to buy this book since I saw it in the Best Reads for 2008 list at Wardah Books and I was tempted to buy it at Books Kinokuniya last week. But since I couldn’t really afford it, I guess this is Allah’s Alternative for me: I found it at a library
SubhanAllah (:
The Pact of the Virtuous
Abdullah ibn Judan, the chief of the Taym tribe and a member of one of the two great alliances of Meccan tribes (known as the People of the Perfume), decided to invite to his home all those who wanted to put an end to the conflicts and establish a pact of honor and justice that would bind the tribes beyond alliances based on tribal, political, or cemmercial interests.
Chiefs and members of numerous tribes thus pledged that it was their collective duty to intervene in conflicts and side with the oppressed against the oppressors, whoever they might be and whatever alliances might link them to other tribes.
This alliance, known as hilf al-fudul (the Pact of the Virtuous), was special in that it placed respect for the principles of justice and support of the oppressed above all other considerations of kinship and power. Young Muhammad, like Abu Bakr, who was to become his lifelong friend, took part in that historic meeting.
Long after the Revelation had begun, Muhammad was to remember the terms of that pact and say: “I was present in Abdullah ibn Judan’s house when a pact was concluded, so excellent that I would not exchange my part in it even for a herd of red camels; and if now, in Islam, I was asked to take part in it, I would be glad to accept.”
(Reported by Ibn Ishaq and Ibn Hisham and confirmed as authentic by various sources, including al-Hamidi, and partly by Imam Ahmad)
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The second teaching is no less essential: at a time when the message was still being elaborated in the course of Revelation and of the Prophet’s experiences, he acknowledged the validity of a pact established by non-Muslims seeking justice and the common good of their society.
The Prophet’s statement is in itself a blatant denial of the trend of thought expressed here and there throughout history of Islamic thought – and to this day – according to which a pledge can be ethically valid for Muslims only if it is of strictly Islamic nature or/and if it is established between Muslims.
Again the key point is that the Prophet clearly acknowledges the validity of adhering to principles of justice and defending the oppressed, regardless of whether those principles come from inside Islam or outside it.
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I initially wanted to share a different excerpt, but today, as I was reading yesterday’s newspaper, I came across an article regarding counter-terrorism efforts and apparently one of our Ministers here has set up a website called P4Peace.
I’m really interested in inter-faith harmony efforts, and I like to read up on the counter-ideology methods adopted by different nations, so I went to that website.
Aaah Masya’Allah… I totally support this effort! I don’t care that it’s set up by a non-Muslim, as long as it promotes peace and justice amongst people.
Because that’s one of the purposes of Islam. Our beautiful religion has NEVER taught us to create chaos or make life hard for others.
This is the promo vid for Search for Common Ground.
Founded in 1982, Search for Common Ground works to transform the way the world deals with conflict – away from adversarial approaches and towards collaborative problem solving. We work with local partners to find culturally appropriate means to strengthen societies’ capacity to deal with conflicts constructively: to understand the differences and act on the commonalities.
And this is one of the many beautiful songs produced by the organisation:
It’s our responsibility as Muslims, as the Ummah of Rasulullah s.a.w. to ensure that peace exists in this dunya. Let’s spread peace in any way that we are capable of. As long as it doesn’t go against Islam of course (:
Fi Amanillah!
MASYA’ALLAH!!!
January 10, 2009 at 20:50 | In Islamic videos, People, Politics, islam | Leave a CommentTags: allah, faith, friday prayers, gaza, islam, jumaah, jumaat, jumah, muslim, Muslims, palestine
SubhanAllah!
SubhanAllah!
SubhanAllah!
Allahu Akbar!
Allahu Akbar!
Allahu Akbar!
Just watch. Just. WATCH.
May Allah Bless our brothers’ and sisters’ devotion to Him, amidst the ordeal.
How motivating. How MOTIVATING.
I’m rendered speechless for now.
Just stunned. And awed.
And touched.
Fi Amanillah!
His Love.
January 7, 2009 at 10:11 | In Dzikr, Patience, People, qur'an | Leave a CommentTags: allah, dzikrullah, ideology, islam, muhasabah, reflections, shari'ah, zikrullah
Subhan’Allah.
Alhamdulillahi rabbil ‘alamin.
Blessings like these are what keeps me going, Masya’Allah.
Yesterday had a rough end. I received a message from my mum, saying that she was sending my Dad to a friend’s house for treatment. I thought, okay, nothing serious I guess.
When I got home from work, a few minutes after Maghrib, she called me and said that my Dad might have suffered a small stroke.
I was shaken. Who wouldn’t be, right? But I couldn’t show it, I had to be strong for my family. My biggest challenge was my paranoia. I kept imagining worst-case scenarios, Astaghfirullah. I couldn’t even bring myself to eat dinner.
When my Mum and uncles finally brought him home, he was able to walk, but weak. I only talked to him after my uncles left, and it broke my heart to hear him talking in a slur. I had to pull a poker face to put up a strong front for him, and for my family.
He couldn’t move the right side of his body. I don’t know if he’d be paralysed but I hope not, Na’udzubillah min dzalliq.
I was feeling down till this morning. I’m just grateful to Him for Allowing me to observe the Sunnah Ashura fast yesterday and today, or I might end up eating excessively to ease my sadness.
I decided to bring along my English tarjamah (Qur’an translation) for emotional support. I wanted to be able to read some motivating verses if I felt horrible at any point of time today.
Usually, before I go into the office, I like to sit under a shelter near the bus stop. I’d spent my time reflecting on anything and admire the trees, and simply observe the cars zooming by and the people walking.
So today my usual spot was taken by a middle-aged man catching his forty winks. It’s a pretty big shelter actually, it’s like the ones you can find at the beaches here. So I sat on the opposite side and made my usual preparations for the day ahead.
About 5 minutes later, he woke up. I think he must’ve talking to me for a few seconds, because I only pulled my headset out of my ears after I noticed that he was facing me.
He asked what was the book next to me. I said it was my English tafsir. What was I going to do with it, he asked. I said I was going to read during my spare time, during lunch break. Read what? I replied saying that I was going to read the meanings.
We sat in silence for a while, then he started saying how there’s no point in reading the Qu’ran if you don’t apply what it instructs you to do to your life.
Intrigued, I kept quiet, sensing he had more to say.
He quoted some verses, one about the rope of Allah (Al-Imran:103). He said that if we were to follow man-made laws and ideology such as democracy, capitalist, communist etc, we’d never fully succeed . We’d be better off following the Shari’ah, because it came from Allah swt.
He reiterated the point several times before he finally got up to head home. He hopes that I’d be given His hidayah and thanked me. I wonder for what now, haha.
I was really awed. There I was, feeling down because of what happened the night before, and Allah swt Sent to me this man, this stranger, to lift my spirits up and as a reminder. Subhan’Allah…
Look at His Love. His Mercy. I’m completely flabbergasted by it. Masya’Allah…
Alhamdulillah, I feel less sad now. It’s random moments like this that reminds me that there is hope for mankind after all. That there are people who do love Islam and want to live the way Allah Has Instructed us to.
Subhan’Allah…
I pray that everyone will get random moments like these so that they can be reminded of Allah swt (:
And I pray for my Dad to get better. Surely there is a blessing in disguise somewhere in this ordeal.
Not forgetting our Palestinian brothers and sisters as well, of course. May Allah swt Give them the strength and the patience to endure their ordeal. Which, by comparison, is much worst than mine.
We have much to be thankful for, don’t we? (:
Fi Amanillah…
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